Our search in finding a BFF is similar to Paris Hilton’s search but, without the televised drama.
1) Smart Comments: This is kryptonite to your social stratosphere. Lets reflect. Try to remember the last time someone you know, or used to know, made a smart remark. What did you feel? In all likelihood it was envy and disgust. So keep your opinions and judgement to your self . Keep your mouth shut.
2) Competition: Sure you want to win but, does it mean you should. Think about it, has arrogance ever got you anywhere that you wanted to go. That’s what I thought. So bury that desire to avoid a disaster down the road. What you get is winning a best friend.
3) Admire: So don’t compete with them, admire them. Let them show off their qualifications and talents. They want you to compliment them even if they don’t acknowledge it. The more you praise them for their talents, the more they will admire you in return. At the end of the day, they will praise you and prefer you above others.
Follow these 3 easy steps and you will be on your way to being the greatest best friend forever!
